Drew freaked out the other day.
Drew -"I don't want to find a new mommy when I grow up"
Me -"Huh???" I was driving at the time and this statement came out of nowhere.
Drew -"I don't want to have kids, cause when I do, I'll have to have a new mommy"
Me - "Oh hunny, you'll never have to find a new mommy. When you grow up, you'll have a wife and if you have kids, she'll be their mommy, but I'll always be YOUR mommy".
Drew -"promise?"
Me - "yes, I promise"
Drew - "OK"
We were at Costco a few days later, and Drew asks me...
Drew - "mommy, are all girls mommies?"
Me - "Well, all girls could be mommies, but some aren't.
Drew - "Why aren't they mommies?"
Me- "There are a lot of reasons hunny. Some don't want to be mommies, some can't be mommies, some aren't old enough to be mommies, some haven't found the right daddy"
Drew - "Why wouldn't they want to be a mommy?"
Me - "Maybe they want some quiet in their lives" Immediate back-track...."but other than that, I don't know, being a mommy is the best job in the world" (As Hunter is screaming because they just took him, in the cart, to the other side of the cash, and now I have to pay).
Drew - Drops subject to go and comfort Hunter.
Fast forward to yesterday. Drew asks James (again, out of the blue)
Drew -"Daddy, can boys marry boys and girls marry girls?"
James - sputtering a bit, I'm sure. "Uh, ya, that can happen.
Drew - "But usually, a boy marries a girl, right?"
James - "ya, I guess so, it really depends on the person"
Drew - "So, if two girls get married, does that mean they'll have more kids??"
James - "No buddy, you need a boy and a girl to make a baby"
Drew - "OK"
James - sigh of relief that the conversation didn't go any further.
I feel we're on the brink of some hard questions!